He who experiences the unity of life sees his own Self in all beings, and all beings in his own Self, and looks on everything with an impartial eye. -Buddha
How to Allow
When it comes to the three main universal laws, the law of attraction, the law of conscious creation and the law of allowing, it’s the last one that seems to hold most people away from realizing their desires. Until you’re willing literally to change your belief system, you cannot master the law of allowing.
There are two parts to the law of allowing. The first part says that you must be open and willing to allow good things to come into your life. The second part says that you must be able to allow others to have, do, or be anything they choose…period. No matter what they choose.
Most people simply cannot allow others. It’s evident all around us. The shootings at Fort Hood, the war on drugs, the opposition to gay marriage, anti abortion rallies, domestic violence, murder, robbery, rape, incest, torture, you name any horror imaginable and it all comes from not allowing others.
The truth is that people resist things they don’t understand. But for any of you who may be Star Trek Next Generation fans as the Borg said, “Resistance is futile.” The more you resist the choices that others make the more you resist yourself.
You Cannot Change the World
Resistance is what makes you feel angry, frustrated, stressed. See the truth that most people miss is that you cannot change the world as a whole. Nor should you even try. But you can change the tiny molecule of the world that is yours by changing yourself.
When you begin to realize that you are your world and only you are responsible (yes there’s that horrible word) for your very life, that should change just how you perceive things. You can stop resisting the choices that others make. And in the process begin allowing everyone to have, do, or be anything they choose.
Once you begin to believe their choices simply will not impact your world in any way you’ll then see just how easy it is to allow others to take responsibility for their own choices as well.
There is a huge relief in not taking on responsibility that isn’t yours. Can you imagine just how easy life would be for most people if they didn’t take on unnecessary added responsibility?
Imagine only focusing your attention on the things that make you happy, instead of all the things you can find that are wrong. Allow others to focus on those things if they choose.
Once you become more conscious about your choices then you become more selective about what you choose. Rather than resisting things you don’t agree with, look at the issue for the other person perspective.
This will help you to let go of your resistance. And you’ll soon find that rather than resistance you’ll feel freedom. Freedom from the unnecessary added responsibility, freedom to live your life as you choose and allow others to do the same.
For more information on how you can learn to Allow Your life all you desire check out Esther and Jerry HIcks book: Ask and it is Given.
